Hi, myself and my two sisters are in a similar situation. My mother was diagnosed with bowel cancer. Has had numerous surgeries. In 2014 it metastasised to her lung. Which was operated on. Now, another mass in bowel and lung and also spot on liver, surgery is no longer an option. She is now in end stages. Very hard to watch and manage. Between hospital trips for blood transfusions etc and pain management. And looking after our own children, and also working.. It's getting very mentally exhausting.
Every hospital trip we do, it feels like it will be the last. Very hard... In some ways, I just wish she would pass quickly, or in her sleep... It's so cruel to see someone you love going through this day in day out.
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