Thank you for telling your story, my very best wishes go with you both. Yes its really hard to plan anything, I had my first outing in 5 months last week, (my husband has stage 4 lymphoma), I went to a concert but didn't book the ticket until the day before and then left my phone on during the concert but wow I really enjoyed it! Cheers.   ... View more

Hi JayKay You are not selfish  at all just going through the process, hope its working out better for you all now. Although I am a lot older than you I do understand, everything has changed and your life has taken a new direction. Maybe eventually some good comes out of it as the brochures say, but so far on our families journey I haven't seen it! Sincere and warm thoughts to you and yours AA   ... View more