i am curious how things are going. I am in the same situation and it is really hard to know what to do. Do we continue to reach out and let them know every day we care. what is the best way to let them have us go through this journey with him ... View more

I just need to thankyou for your post.  I was just given the news my boyfriend of a short time has been diagnosed with Cancer. He has not told me what kind . I am letting him choose to tell me at his own pace. He told me he does not want to talk and wants to be alone. But thank you..   I know it is a short time together but he told me he wanted to marry me .. I feel the same too.. its so hard..  I lost my ex 10 years ago to cancer and put the pieces of my life back .. I told him i  am here for  him and lets fight together.. Your words at the end gave hope..  I guess have faith in what is ahead.. ... View more