So I was with my boyfriend for about a year before he was diagnosed with stage 2 HL. He happens to gall in the 15% who doesn't respond to the standard treatment and has had many infections/ complications along the way. As a last resort he will be getting a stem cell transplant around March. I have spent half of our relationship constantly giving him all my free time l, attention, and enegery. I am quite burnt out. Now I'm wondering if this will even be worth it. Our whole relationship has always been about him and everything he has going on in his life. I feel completely neglected. Anytime I have talked to him about it, he just refuses to accept how I feel and does nothing different. I feel like i am not even a part of his life. I have so much anger and resentment towards him. We've gone to councelling, but he seem to listen to anything being said. Since we only had about a year of getting to know each other, I'm scared that this is just the person he is. I just don't know what to do.
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