Hi thanks so much for replying back, i feel better now that i know how to deal with this, yes we do watch some british comedies in Netflix, and watch some movie when she's not too tired. Amd yes the doctor recommended her to do some exercise, in this case only to walk, she has a treadmill but she only does excersice que she doesn't fell exhausted, and we receive some good news on tuesday, and it's that her doctor cancelled her chemos, her last chemo was yesterday so she's optimistic about it, i have to see her on saturday, the good thing is that she's not on the hospital all the time, she's only there the treatment days and after the treatment she goes home, and i really hope she can get a little bit better mentally speaking, she was with a psychologist but she wasn't able to pay it this month because of the physiotherapy expenses every week, but i think she will re take it next month, and i think that now she will be more able to go out with our friends and everything, and actually she always tell me thay i need to go out with my friends and not worry so much about her, but sometimes i feel like i'm not having a good time knowing that she is felling bad.
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Hi! My girlfriend and I started on February last year and on March she was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer, she went through hormone theraphy for around 3 months and then she was scheduled for a double mastectomy, she went through that and a month after her doctor told her that she needed pteventive chemotherapy for a couple of months, that was shocking to us since after the surgery her soctor told us that they removed the whole disease and that chemo was not needed, but then she mentioned the thing about the preventive chemo, anyway, before the chemo the doctors need a full CAT Scan and an MRI, after this they found a out that the cancer moved to her spine, since apparently the surgeon didn't mentioned us that the cancer had mutated and moved to her right arm ganglia, so the surgeon remove almost all them during the mastectomy, but since the cancer mutated and moved to her ganglia started to move through her blood and then it allocated in her spine only in a few vertebrae so now she's stage 4 and she's been in chemotherapy and inmunotherapy since September last year and now we'll been through a lot of drama but we'll be able to manage it quite well, but i'm struggling with making her happy, or make her laugh or make her feel like... Normal or better, she's always depressed and sad, and she has reason for that, but idk how to deal with this since i feel like every time she's with me she's not being hapoy, she tried several times to break up with me or to convince me to leave her since she doesn't want me to go through this, but it may sound corny but she's the one for me and i love her so much i don't want her to be all alone, can you help me? I hope you guys could give me some advice, she's 29 and I'm 24
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Cancer Council NSW would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land on which we live and work.We would also like to pay respect to elders past and present and extend that respect to all other Aboriginal people.