Hi NAND, your last sentence is actually the main point, isn’t it. For the benefit of your unborn child, relieving you of the stress of your dads illness is vital. For you too, of course. I have no understanding of the support systems in India, there must be some facilities in the Colonised districts. No doubt, his complaining is about getting more attention and a form of guilt laying. Giving him support is very important, but, it can’t replace your need for a healthy, happy life. You can only do so much & then , your family needs must take over. This will sound callous, but he has lived , and can continue living his life. You & your unborn baby are at the start of yours. Maybe you can try to source some support for dad. Maybe the first step is talking to your fathers main doctor. I’m sorry I can’t be more help. I wish you all the best & hope you can get your dad sorted soon.   Lindsay     ... View more