I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m sitting here still struggling as well. My beautiful mum passes away- and it wasn’t peaceful like people pretend. She left me on the 1st August. I don’t think anyone can tell us how to make it better. Because I think it gets harder. Mum and I believe in the after life- but trust me my dad definitely does not. However after losing his wife he was willing to see a medium with me and she was amazing. There is no way she could have know what she did. It gave my dad and I some reassurance that mum is still around. I’m still angry and not coping so I’m not saying it fixed the pain but honestly it did help and that’s all I needed. No one can ever make sense of the face that mum won’t ever call again or tell me off or he my biggest fan. It’s so shit. I just wanted to share what did help- a little - but it still breaks me every day ... View more