Thankyou for your reply, I have had contact with palliative care, they said to wait a couple of weeks after his radiation and see how he goes.  With the virus situation at the moment it is very hard to get respite. My father God love him is very stubborn and set in his ways.  He doesn't want to come home with me for the weekend,  I feel that I should just go home by myself and make him realize that he is unable to be by himself.  My aged care are prioritizing him in the system. Should here from them in a couple of weeks. I have sisters who don't want to help whether they are just lazy or scared not sure. Frustrating because they don't work.  ... View more