I understand your problem with intimacy and there  are some very straightforward options you can try.   Have you tried using a generous amount of a lubricant such as KY Gell. It is watermarked and recommended by chemists. Another option is to use a good quality water based massage oil  It can be used to start with during foreplay and then as part of foreplay lead down to your clitoris and vaginal passage. This will add a new dimension to your intimacy.    ... View more