@TraceyAnne I have learnt that asking what support our loved ones want from us is important, the state of your brothers house might be more of concern to you than it is to him. We all want the best for our loved ones and people do better when supported appropriately, I do hope you will be able to find a balance between caring support and looking after yourself and your own family. I am sure the things that Kate sent through will be helpful. I found emotional support for myself via a rural health initiative to be beneficial and following an interstate move I accessed free phone counseling through the Carer Gateway (where there is a lot of helpful information), the Cancer Council also have a free counseling service.
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