My partner was diagnosed with Prostate cancer in November 2019 and had Robotic Surgery to remove the prostate cancer in March of this year!   It has been very stressful  time for us as a couple and also very stressful for our son and daughter!   its been rough on us and I have tried my best to help him through this horrific journey!   Everything I do is wrong or there's a sarcastic comment!  He is aggressive, angry and not very nice at times towards me especially!  He never apologises or takes ownership of his actions and has actually caused a few scenes and caused conflict with my future son in law that was not warranted !  he is never wrong and is always right!!!   Any way the long and short of it is that after his surgery our relationship has taking a severe dive for the worst and he has truly shown that he is selfish !   he goes to see his surgeon last week and get the good news that his cancer treatment has been successful!   He never bothered to tell me until I asked him if he had spoken to the surgeon yet ?   I have been asking for weeks and he just brushed it off with a yes it soon!   He said he forget to tell me !   I am so hurt and angry that he could do this!  when i challenged him he says ! I forgot to tell you what's the big deal !!  the big deal is that as a family we have been to hell and back - tears, anger, worry, sleepless nights! and he has'nt the decency to tell me the good news - I am so disappointed in his actions that I don't think I can take his shit anymore!   this should have been a time for the family to share the good news and support each other and I feel so let down by him!  This is a selfish act !! ... View more