Its a horrid situation - i have given my all to this relationship over 37 years .... i just cant accept that he opted not too say anything until i asked the question ! His attitude is that he is always right even when he is clearly wrong! never take ownership of his bad decisions or behaviour. I am tired of it all...... sadly never thought i would feel like that .......
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Hi Budgie, No I think he is too set in his ways – he never ever apologises for his actions and I have had enough of doing stuff his way !! its hard going trying to please someone who is never satisfied! I am happy and relieved that his cancer has been treated and with great result! But for now I am going to look at things now that are goods for me! I have given the benefit of the doubt way too often and I am over waiting for Mr Happy too show his face!! Thanks for llistening I really do appreciate it!!
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My partner was diagnosed with Prostate cancer in November 2019 and had Robotic Surgery to remove the prostate cancer in March of this year!
It has been very stressful time for us as a couple and also very stressful for our son and daughter! its been rough on us and I have tried my best to help him through this horrific journey!
Everything I do is wrong or there's a sarcastic comment! He is aggressive, angry and not very nice at times towards me especially! He never apologises or takes ownership of his actions and has actually caused a few scenes and caused conflict with my future son in law that was not warranted ! he is never wrong and is always right!!!
Any way the long and short of it is that after his surgery our relationship has taking a severe dive for the worst and he has truly shown that he is selfish ! he goes to see his surgeon last week and get the good news that his cancer treatment has been successful! He never bothered to tell me until I asked him if he had spoken to the surgeon yet ? I have been asking for weeks and he just brushed it off with a yes it soon! He said he forget to tell me !
I am so hurt and angry that he could do this! when i challenged him he says ! I forgot to tell you what's the big deal !! the big deal is that as a family we have been to hell and back - tears, anger, worry, sleepless nights! and he has'nt the decency to tell me the good news - I am so disappointed in his actions that I don't think I can take his shit anymore! this should have been a time for the family to share the good news and support each other and I feel so let down by him! This is a selfish act !!
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Cancer Council NSW would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land on which we live and work.We would also like to pay respect to elders past and present and extend that respect to all other Aboriginal people.