Hi all, I am a 33 yo female, diagnosed with rectal cancer (stage 2 - T3a) amid Covid lockdown in Melbourne. Deciding to find out what food intolerances were causing my mild symptoms while in covid lockdown 1.0 may have saved my life. It was found about 6-8 weeks ago, is large and close to the sphincter. The surgeon seems to want to leave me with very little hope for saving the sphincter and stoma reversal (it is 6cm from the end), he also says I need chemoradiation before hand - without question. Since then I have seen a team of radial oncologists who are questioning the grade and the need for radiation... So after another biopsy and a referral to IVF (I am single with no kids) I still have no idea if I will have a perminant bag, if ill need to endure radiation and all it's side effects and if I'll even be able to carry a pregnancy following radiation. Every specialist seems to have a different opinion (not just the surgeon v oncologist, but also the oncologist said my uterus wont be able to withstand pregnancy post-radiation, the IVF gyno disagreed). The final decision about immediate treatment will be made next week. I am just so extremely overwhelmed not just about what I will endure over the next 6 months... But the impact on the rest of my life... Also who do I trust? My friends have been as supportive as possible in stage 4 lockdown, but it would be great if I could find some people who have been through a similar experience. Looking forward to hearing from you. X Nic
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