Hi Goldie, I'm sorry to hear about your Dad and I'm very sorry to hear about the situation you are in and how he is treating you and your family. Just to reinforce to you, that the way that he is treating you isn't acceptable. Just because he has cancer doesn't mean that he can treat you like this. I say this as both someone who has had cancer and who someone who has had family with cancer.   A quick search on this online community and it will be fairly obvious how many people have family members with anger issues after their diagnosis with cancer. But judging from what you've said, it sounds like your father has had anger issues that were there before the cancer diagnosis.  Have you told him how his actions make you feel?   Hope things get better for you soon.   -s ... View more