Hi everyone, i am new here so thought i'd start with...i am 41, a single mother with 2 children aged 18 & 9. My nephew, my sister's (aka my best friend) son who turned 19 last week, was diagnosed with ALL in april of this year. As we live in a small country town in NSW, they (my sister, my nephew & his brother)had to relocate to Sydney while he underwent 6 rounds of chemo. They returned home, for the first time since April, last week. My nephew, who is in remission, is unable to cope with his illness & the future & 2 days ago started drinking & has not stopped!! Please, if anyone can offer me some support/advice on how to deal with this, i would be extremely grateful. I just don't know how to help him...PLEASE help
Sorry for the crisis you are going through, try ringing the cancer council should be a number for help here on site He obviously needs Professional help and guidance there number is 13 11 20 If there is no answer post again and in the mean time I will look for other services that may be able to help
There is an organisation called beyond blue which has a 24 hr help line I just looked and it is a national initiative they have a number for information 1300 22 4636 sorry thats all I can suggest maybe they can give you some guidance as the situation could become very scary
Canteen may also provide some sort of assistace seeing as your nephew is quite young. It must be hard for someone so young to have to go through a diagnosis and subsequent treatment. Perhaps even directing him here to these boards might be of use to him. He can see that there are others who go through the fear and trauma and then treatment afterwards. As a country patient myself I can relate to it being difficult to have to travel for treatment and to be away from family and friends. His life would have changed so dramatically and in such a short space of time.
THoughts are with you all.
I had thought of Al-Anon but wasn't sure . It is for those affected by another's drinking . It may help you to cope yourself ,well worth trying and your son could get something out of it too .
It would be good if your nephew joined this site and talked to other people near his own age who also have cancer .
Hi sonyabarton, My son who was just 29 passed away 6 weeks ago, he had a brain tumor, bad epilipsy but loved his drink we knew what the alchol would do to him but it was his choice and his alone. He didnt die from drinking he died from this dreaded F...en disease.
Cancer Council NSW would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land on which we live and work.We would also like to pay respect to elders past and present and extend that respect to all other Aboriginal people.