I am 34 years old and my boyfriend of 6 months was diagnosed with prostate cancer about 6 weeks ago. He is 37. During this time he has basically stopped all communication with me, his last communication being a text message saying that he had to focus all his energy on himself. I still don't know his exact diagnosis and when I ask him he says that it is better for me not to know all the details so that I will be better able to "move on" with my life. He has also said that he hasn't told anyone one of his cancer, not even his parents, siblings or close friends. I want to respect his wishes but I am hurting. I am scared as I don't know how serious his cancer is, and I am worried that he has decided to try and go through this journey on his own without any help from anyone. I just don't know what to do.