My heart aches for everyone around me


My heart aches for everyone around me

Is it just me or does everyone seem to crumble around you as soon as you tell them you have cancer 


Re: My heart aches for everyone around me

I know what you mean, Leeman. I'm new to this, diagnosed a month ago with stage 4 pancreatic cancer.


I don't know so much if people crumble, as such, or if they genuinely don't know what to do or say. I'm trying to think back to when I didn't have cancer and if someone had told me that they did. I've always been a very supportive person, overly so, in fact, so I would have shown a lot of empathy and I would also have been positive in my response. But then that's just me.


Perhaps people just view the word 'cancer' in different ways. To some it means a death sentence. To others a fight. I think in many ways we ignite their own fears when we tell them about what we're going through.


Regardless, I notice that your post was from back in January. I hope things are working out well for you.


Kind regards




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