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Hi everyone. I’ve recently been diagnosed with bladder cancer and I also have a precancerous growth on my pancreas. Having these two things to worry about at once is feeling incredibly heavy, especially because I live on my own.
I’m finding the isolation very hard. I have two sisters, but unfortunately, they aren't able to be the support system I need right now. One is quite judgmental and we aren't in contact, and the other has only reached out once since I got my news. I sent a text today to try and express how much I'm struggling, but now I'm sitting here in the quiet second-guessing myself.
It’s a lot to carry by myself. I’m wondering if anyone else here lives alone while navigating treatment? Or perhaps someone who has had to manage two different health concerns at the same time?
I’m just looking for a bit of connection and maybe some advice on how to stay calm when it all feels like too much.
Hello Donnakim,
Thank you for reaching out to this forum. The online forum can be a wonderful space to find support from others.
What you are carrying right now is a lot, and it makes complete sense that it feels incredibly heavy especially while living alone and facing serious health concerns at the same time.
Living alone during diagnosis and treatment can really amplify feelings of isolation. Many people here will understand that quiet house feeling, where worries get louder at night.
If you would like to speak to one of our health professionals, please know you can call Cancer Council on 13 11 20. Take care, Adriana