G'day Mike 49
Congratulations on doing your homework, listening to word of mouth and going back to your original surgeon/urologist. For the bulk of men with prostate cancer, any urologist with some years experience should be able to do a good job on a prostatectomy. It comes back to relationship with the patents and their family, the full sute of ancillary services - continence nurse, psychologist - being available. Yes we have those who have invested money in getting a Da Vinci machine in and then have to recoup the costs by touting robotic surgery as better than anything else - sadly the retrospective data indicates that the outcomes are no better, the patient is just $9,000 - $20,000 worse off. However, whilst you did consider alternative surgeons, did anyone suggest none surgical procedures such as brachytherapy or external beam radiotherapy. We still have the problem that urologists are trained as surgeons so tend naturally to offer surgery and not consider other options. All men with prostate cancer should be seen by a urologist and a radiation oncologist working as a multidisciplinary team, that includes oncologists, nurses and physiotherapists. That is the gold standard, it happens for breast cancer and other cancer, it should happen for prostate cancer. Only then will patients be offered the most appropriate treatment for them as an individual. My urologist was a great man and he referred me to a radiation oncologist for brachytherapy with the words "At your age, with your background and lifestyle I am recommending this treatment. If you were ten years older and not pushing a racing dinghy round a course each Saturday, I might recommend surgery".
So get second opinions, but from different treatment disciplines.
Cheers
Sailor
Ah to throw off the shackles and fly with the seagulls
To where the green waves tumble before a driving sea wind. Eric Bogle, Safe in the Harbour