Hi Cora,
Yes, it does sound like we are in a similar situation. So, what has happened since my last post....
The ultrasound doctor found those three nodes, but my specialist was sure he was wrong, she couldn't believe it had spread to more lymph nodes. But they had, the biopsy came back positive on all three. The good news was that my surgeon thought that since they were in a tricky spot and quite small it wasn't worth operating. So I had radioactive iodine two weeks ago, and we'll just wait and see now.
They ended up finding a fourth lymph node in a different spot, but again, very small and not worth operating on.
My specialist also seems to downplay the risk and keeps saying that I don't need to worry because it's still a slow growing cancer.... but I've now had six lymph nodes with cancer pop up very quickly, so what's the deal with that?? She's consulted with other doctors who say the same so I guess I just have to trust them. But whenever I go to have a biopsy she says she'd be so surprised if it comes back positive, and it does, so I feel like she doesn't really understand what's going on, is insistent on maintaining that my cancer is like all other thyroid cancers but it doesn't seem like it is.
But it is incredibly hard trying to settle back into normal life and not be dominated by the cancer. I just assume that they will find more lymph nodes, because every scan I have had in the last 6 months has found more cancer. It feels like only a matter of time before it spreads somewhere else in my body. Maybe not for years, but I am only 23, I have a lot of years left!