You know you did the right thing by respecting your husband's rights . I suspect the stranger thought you had made the decision to be a cruel and bossy wife . She was probably just concerned for your husband . It's good that you calmed down and put her straight. You are right about not judging others when you are not walking in their shoes. ... View more

Wishing you and your partner well. ... View more

You can say what is on your mind here .That can be trying to help others or asking for help from others. I hope your treatment goes well. ... View more

So sorry about your latest news. From what I've seen in posts this is a very cruel cancer. ... View more

Samex, I never had chemo but had surgery and radiation. I think your comment is one to which many who have had cancer can relate . ... View more

I recently saw a tv programme about hospital chaplains. I know you said he doesn't believe in God but I think they still help those people who don't believe to be at peace, Maybe contact a hospital near his home and ask to speak to the chaplain and enquire about this. They help the families too. ... View more

I am sorry for this . It is good that the palliative care team are there for you. The thought of raising 3 children on your own must be daunting. For now try not to allow that thought to overwhelm you. ... View more

Dotty and Rex,the photos sound like a great idea!!! Even though my cancer is in my thoughts every day ,it does not stop me from doing all the" normal " things in life . Cancer sites and contact with new online friends is for the most part a positive thing for me. There is also sadness as some are no longer here and when others are going through painful times. The posivity ,courage and strenghth of many I've met online is humbling and at the same time uplifting. I've seen it written by someone that "I have cancer but it doesn't have me." Still there are critical times when cancer does take over entirely . ... View more

I am so sorry for what is happening . I can't think of anything much to help but have seen many posts where men turn their fear and pain into anger . Sadly the women in their lives are on the receiving end . Even though you are doing the right things I think some men don't like to be what they see as needy. ... View more

I can only imagine how difficult it must be for you all. It is especially hard when children are involved . They need to know what is going on but only given what they can handle. Counsellors may be able to assist you with this . I hope you get support from others ,family ,friends and here. I know people here will help . ... View more