Sorry Archie , I'm not on here as often as I used to be . I'm almost at 10 years since my diagnosis , which was in February 2010. My cancer was in a different place to yours so I don't know what radiation will be like for you or what the side effects are , but do ask any questions of your doctor . Perhaps you and your wife could write a list of questions . During radiation the hospital staff are very caring and helpful and the nurses can often answer your questions between doctor visits . They are there to offer advice every day . For me radiation was not as bad as surgery but many people find the opposite . My biggest problem at the time of radiation was feeling depressed about it all and I tried to get counselling which was on offer but didn't get an appointment during that time . I did get counselling a couple of months after radiation ended and it was so , so good . I contacted the Cancer Council after having trouble finding a suitable place to go . I highly recommend them to anyone feeling down or depressed about their cancer . I can understand how all that is happening for you is taking a toll on you and your wife . I was 59 at diagnosis and luckily I had a supportive husband . I wish you well throughout .
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