Dear Sunshine.
I agree with what wombat has said in that , as hard as it is for you, maybe a respite can help you both , a time to re-group , so to speak.
I know you will worry about him in an aged care facility, it is not what any of us want for our parents.
I was looking after my beautiful dad 10 years ago in my home with the help of palliative care nurses and our local GP. My dad went for some "extra help" for a couple of weeks, and then returned home. It was hard for us both, but we both got some much needed sleep.
Take care sweetie. I feel for you.
Mignon
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