At the moment my son Stuart is yelling at me at 2am. I just block my ears to not hear to what he says to me. This cancer is not my fault and Wombat is a darling to point her point of view over as I agree with her totally. It has made me think and I find this good of her to say this to me. It has taken all the dreams, plans, future out of me. But I believe I can bounce back as it will take time to do. Wombats point of view is very good to think about for me to have my life back again soon. This is a life that others would avoid to go on about the surgery in our minds. It is not good to be so strongly negative about it. I want to have plans, dreams and my future back as I love swimming. This time I will put the swimming first before the house work to have fun at the pool. I need this to relax and sleep when I need too. This won't be for me to do this but only for a short time. Glenys. x0 ... View more

Hi Wombat, Then I feel that where I can't get the surgery off my mind as it is strongly on my mind how do I cope with that please. I recent the part that where I went through the surgery and we all didn't deserve it. I have the medical procedures on my mind a lot. Glenys x0 ... View more

Hi Wombat, Thanking you for your reply to me as it is so good for you to reply. It has put me into a situation of justifcation of how I feel and you are a darling to reply to me. I agree with it %100 or more but it is hard to deal with it. My husband has read it but can't understand it. He has prostate cancer and diabeties so will he understand me where he has had no surgery like me. Thanks again as I know anyone will help me on this wonderful web site. This is my tool to ask and I know I'll get a reply as all of you are so very nice people. Glenys. ... View more

yes I agree with you that it's no joke for these types of cancer. I know it's not you but it's your daughter & baby that had cancer. She's all clear but that is not a comfort. It's the experience of the diagnoses that is terrible to come to terms with and with the op coming afterwards. Any type of cancer is over the moon. I have had breast cancer but not my son having any cancer and he is 29 years old. Glenys. ... View more

yes I agree with you that it's no joke for these types of cancer. I know it's not you but it's your daughter & baby that had cancer. She's all clear but that is not a comfort. It's the experience of the diagnoses that is terrible to come to terms with and with the op coming afterwards. Any type of cancer is over the moon. I have had breast cancer but not my son having any cancer and he is 29 years old. Glenys. ... View more

yes I agree with you that it's no joke for these types of cancer. I know it's not you but it's your daughter & baby that had cancer. She's all clear but that is not a comfort. It's the experience of the diagnoses that is terrible to come to terms with and with the op coming afterwards. Any type of cancer is over the moon. I have had breast cancer but not my son having any cancer and he is 29 years old. Glenys. ... View more

I am shocked of your message to where your partner has passed away. I don't know what to say to you but I am sorry and you are not alone. Have you got family close by and friends that you can contact? Prayer is a good thing to know as God cares and loves you. Suffering in this world will end very soon. Glenys 00 ... View more

Hi Ash, I am surprised with your comment with my grammer and spelling mistakes. I see others doing the same thing as me. I have had breast cancer in the middle of May 2010 and emotionally so that I can't get to sleep till 4am. I want to go swimming but our money is low. I can't see myself going swimming till May/June. I am pysically OK and no kemo or radiation to it. people seem to discret to look at the pysical part of it not the emotional part. So I hope this is OK for you now. Glenys x0 ... View more

When in WA last June/July 2011 I had my sister visit our mother from Harvey. She was with her husband and 2 boys. I wanted to chat about the breast cancer and it went for about half-an-hour.It was the first time I had a chance to chat to my sister as she is a nursing sister too. My sister's husband got sick of it and got up to walk outside to just drive away with my sister and boys. I haven't but one phone call to ask him why he did that he said he was just tired of what I was saying. He can get lost with me. The personal space they want over there is good. Glenys xxxx ... View more