I lost my sad around 9 months ago. My mother and I are definitely still in the denial phase. We have both noticed poor memory signs. It’s only recently I’ve discovered this can be caused by grief. Im sorry for your loss and at the same time it’s nice to know that we are not the only ones who are having problems with memory loss. Mum and I are both having problems with our short term memory and I my self can say, my sense of time also. I still feel like dad is out and he will be home soon or that he is in his room still, it’s so strange ... View more

Hello, I’m Liza and I’m sorry your mum is in pain. my dad has stage 4 cancer in a lot of places and in pain too. He has finally found a good drug to help with his pain. There are lots of different pain med types. You could ask the oncologist about maybe changing medications to help manage the pain better ... View more