I also refused treatment. Read your post & you have been through a lot. Hope life is getting easier & more peaceful. I was diagnosed breast Cancer over a year ago stage 3 with lymph node fully involved. Current Doctor told me no need to see Specialist he would refer to hospital simple lumpectomy & would get all the support I needed. Went & got mastectomy bras etc & organised home to be left handed. Insisted on seeing my Breast Cancer Specialist as he knows me & had done parathyroid tumour. He gave referral to hospital saying frail aged would need longer stay after op & rehab until could manage at home. Hah hospital at first wanted to send me home 2nd day. Help with drains a few times a week but would have to give up home care. Tried ways it just didn't work. Quality of life has always been important & now knew could not manage by myself physically or mentally. A year later still here but breast spreading & will be Fungating. Feeling alone with it but determined to enjoy as much life as I can whilst sorting house, paperwork 😥 & going out on my mobility scooter. Probably end of year will be it.
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