My hubby has stage 4 bowel cancer. After a year of two different chemos there isn't anything else at the moment they can do and have given him 6-12mths. He is so cranky with me and this weekend had our daughters wedding and her anxiety made him cranky and he carried this through the whole day and into the week.  Like this was supposed to be his dream come true.  I'm just hanging in there because I know this is due to the prognosis and all the meds.   I try not to retaliate but sometimes I have to tell him how upset I am. Of course that makes it worse.   Anyway. Just wanted to tell a tiny bit of my tail ... View more

Hi there.  I've been on this journey with my hubby for the last 12 months. I am working full time as he is no longer working . He was able to access his super as a lump sum payout.  The hospital guided him to do this.  This was a lifesaver for us.  Maybe you could do the same? ... View more