Hi Katdoe,thanks for your comment and i am sorry to hear about your Dad.
My Dad is now down to about 50 Kg, had another big op at RPA last Friday...we bought him some ensure plus to drink about a month ago & he rang only a few days ago asking how to mix it up as he cant eat due to stitches in his mouth....mum was much relieved as she had been trying to get him to drink it for the last month.
Must admit its putting us all under huge strain but at least mum is not talking divorce at this moment in time.
Hope your having a good day Cheers Joshr
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Hi to all, i would just like to say what a great site this is for support.
I am a 42yo male,15 years ago my mother called me & told me dad had a rare form of bone cancer.Dad actually had symptoms for 2 years before the diagnosis but was very stubborn & thought it was arthritis!
So began his journey with a replacement of the femur bone in his leg, a brief recovery & physio. For the next six years he had no issuses but then started to get pain back in his hip.
Another operation was then done to remove more bone & soft tissue, at the same time an x-ray was called for & his doctors found 20-30 shadows on his lungs.
Last year they found growths in his liver so doctors gave him radiotherapy for it & the lung issue.
His wieght is down to 54kg & last week his specialist advized that a hospice place get booked.
We are very stressed as a family because dad is in extreme denial about his condition & on occasion has become abusive to my mother even going as far to blame her for his cancer.He wont even contemplate pain control & wont go near his morphine.
Even the GP that they both go to is at wits end with his attitude!
I get very worried for both of them as mum is herself recovering from a masectomy.
Sorry for this long winded outpouring but I really dont know what to do without causing world war 3 within my family, thanks Joshr
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Cancer Council NSW would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land on which we live and work.We would also like to pay respect to elders past and present and extend that respect to all other Aboriginal people.