Hi there, My husband was diagnosed in Feb this year.  10 rounds of chemo and a few hospital stays later, he had Whipple surgery nearly 2 weeks ago.  After 11 hours of surgery we have been told that he will need radiation and chemo (we knew he would need chemo).  I feel like he has given up,  He is basically refusing food and can't get out of bed.  The medical team are wonderful - but I feel helpless. He just sleeps now and won't talk.  I know he is depressed, We just want him to get stronger to come home. ... View more