congrats on doing so well! your story is inspiring and gives hope to others.. have a very merry christmas! xo ... View more

hey there my bf has bowel cancer and when he first got diagnosed i think it was more emotional for him and that put him off his food.. i think eating is the last thing you think about when u first get told u have cancer.. give it some time im sure she'l come round 🙂 it does get easier with time, more accepting of whats happening etc.. best of luck xo ... View more

i have to agree with the above msg.. think of this as another hurdle.. its so hard because you must be so tired and sick of bad news! a friend told me a true story of how a man was due to act in an reanactment of a tv show (true crime stories).. the man had in his head that when the fake gun shot at him he would get shot! he felt silly and thought for some reason he would actually get shot even though there were no bullets in it.. eventually he had to act out the crime scene and when the man pulled the gun out and shot at him, the actor died of a heart attack! beleive it or not the heart attack clearly showed that there was a bullet like mark on his chest... i guess what im trying to say is that the mind is a very powerful thing! believe what you want and dont listen to the negative things.. you can get through this! best of luck :) ... View more

thanks guys, yeah im just scared that combined with chemo its going to make him very sick, its targeting his bowel and so i really do hope it shrinks his nasty tumor! he's a tough cookie so i hope he's ok 🙂 ... View more

thats excellent! i believe a lot of it is in your mind.. if u say your sick and tired then u will be! i find that massaging my boyfriend makes him better, he's always tense and sore. Long hot baths with salts and oils are a great way to ease pain to! 🙂 ... View more

thanks.. its weird although everything seems ok.. when i tell people they give me this look like they dnt think its going to be.. then that makes me feel crap, just gota ignore it i think! ... View more