Hi @Kathy12  Thank you for sharing this with us. What you have been through is an incredible amount to carry. To learn that both of your parents had advanced cancer diagnoses within days of each other, then lose your dad so soon while caring for your mum, is heartbreaking. It's completely understandable that you're struggling. Many people in similar circumstances experience a mix of grief, overwhelm, sadness, fear, and exhaustion. There is no 'right' way to feel. You may find our resource Understanding Grief helpful as you navigate the loss of your father and everything that's happening with your mum Another avenue that may be of help is calling our team on 13 11 20 to chat about support options that are available to people affected by cancer. Counselling may be an option and something you find supportive - they can talk about it with you.  Please be gentle with yourself. Miranda CCNSW ... View more