Lillipilli Love of a parent is a wonderfull thing especially when it is recipricated multiple times over , so it is natural grief is so very hard to come to terms with, can i suggest if you already have not see a grief councellor or psychologist they do marvelous work in helping you understand your feelings and they may be able suggest strategies to help with what is happening in your life good luck in finding what helps you at this time kj ... View more

sonyabarton how did you get on find any help offered to you kj ... View more

sonyabarton There is an organisation called beyond blue which has a 24 hr help line I just looked and it is a national initiative they have a number for information 1300 22 4636 sorry thats all I can suggest maybe they can give you some guidance as the situation could become very scary kj ... View more

sonyabarton Sorry for the crisis you are going through, try ringing the cancer council should be a number for help here on site He obviously needs Professional help and guidance there number is 13 11 20 If there is no answer post again and in the mean time I will look for other services that may be able to help ... View more

frangipani75 So sorry to read of the passing of your mum so soon after diagnosis my sympathy to you and the family kj ... View more

frangapani75 Words can't express properly the trauma and emotions your family will be going through at this moment, so I wish you and your parents all the best for the times ahead. kj ... View more

kasianne Sorry to read about your battle with cancer the last thing you need is to continually having to justify that you are healthy enough to continue in your employment,especially as you work in the caring industry,sounds like you are a very determined lady, at this time in life you rely don't need hassles like that from work good luck for the future on both fronts. kj ... View more

emma2 I can relate to not being able to switch the mind off as my wife had the same problem she has seen a counselor and needed medication as well sounds like you are on the right track good luck with it all kj ... View more

emma2 Have you thought about contacting a councellor they may be able to suggest strategies for coping and dealing with what is going on in your life with your mother inlaws illness and may be some comfort and help to you both kj ... View more