I have just been reading your story, you have not mentioned palliative care, have you been linked into palliative care yet? They are such a great source of information and help and can do so much to ease your burden, most people think of them as only helping out at the end but they can do so much more early on too. They have helped all of us in the immediate family deal with what is to come in the future, they usually have counsellors and social workers too. Deb ... View more

Sorry for not reading this earlier, yes, you should have counselling, check with your GP and if not go through the cancer council. I feel for you, wish I could help, but having no children myself I have no advice for you. Let us know how you are getting on, we are all thinking of you craftyone ... View more