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Terrih1961

Hi Tim, I cried my eyes out when I read what you wrote to me. I felt so sad for you. When I wrote my post I was laying in bed and couldnt sleep. I was crying and I just wanted to tell someone. I think I was the only one on this site at 4.15am. I never expected anyone to write anything back. I am so glad you did, it helped. My heart go's out to you and especially your wife. I feel sorry for our loved one's we leave behind. I have been told I am incurable and Pallative Chemo may slow things down. I hope in my heart treatment will help you get some more time. To me time is the most important thing of all to me at the moment. We should be in the prime of our life now and enjoying the fruits of our hard work. All my future plans are now put on the backburner. Take a holiday if your well enough and start doing those things on your bucket list. Give your wife a kiss from me and tell her I think she has a wonderful husband. My husband left 4 years ago, I miss the cuddles, give her lot's of cuddles because she will miss them when your gone. Your right we should enjoy what we have for as long as we have it and thats what I intend to do also Take care Tim I will be thinking of you Terri

Terrih1961

Hi Tim, I cried my eyes out when I read what you wrote to me. I felt so sad for you. When I wrote my post I was laying in bed and couldnt sleep. I was crying and I just wanted to tell someone. I think I was the only one on this site at 4.15am. I never expected anyone to write anything back. I am so glad you did, it helped. My heart go's out to you and especially your wife. I feel sorry for our loved one's we leave behind. I have been told I am incurable and Pallative Chemo may slow things down. I hope in my heart treatment will help you get some more time. To me time is the most important thing of all to me at the moment. We should be in the prime of our life now and enjoying the fruits of our hard work. All my future plans are now put on the backburner. Take a holiday if your well enough and start doing those things on your bucket list. Give your wife a kiss from me and tell her I think she has a wonderful husband. My husband left 4 years ago, I miss the cuddles, give her lot's of cuddles because she will miss them when your gone. Your right we should enjoy what we have for as long as we have it and thats what I intend to do also Take care Tim I will be thinking of you Terri

Terrih1961

i am still trying to come to terms with things. At the moment I am just numb. Thank you for your reply Terri

Terrih1961

i am still trying to come to terms with things. At the moment I am just numb. Thank you for your reply Terri

Terrih1961

4 days before Xmas I was told I have stage 4 Lung Cancer, which has spread to my spine, ribs, arm, shoulder, neck, Lymph nodes, adreanal glands. I was told I have 12 months left without treatment and 1-2 years with treatment. I start my first chemo next friday 6 jan. I am devastated. I have a daughter who is 23 and a son who is 30 and a 2 year old grandson. I have gone from being a fit healthy person, a manager with a great job and 35 staff under me. I was treated for Pnemonia until I could not stand the pain any longer and took myself to the hospital after many tests and 3 weeks of waiting, my whole world has been turned upside down. I am angry that this thing has been growing in me for a few years and I have never had any incling. I feel cheated. I will never see my daughter get married or watch my grandson grow up. I have gone from being a bundle of life and energy, to a crying, depressed mess of a woman. I hate my life now. I just want it to go away

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