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Dear John What a lovely poem, I can truly relate to this poem how I felt when I lost my beloved grandmother. It explains those feelings very well in just a few words. John there is time to grief and time to recover. I dont't think I can offer you the apropriate words eihter to take this aweful pain of yours away. Its lovely that you can voice your grief here, and please do, thats what we are here for. To listen.to share the pain. John there is time to grief and time to recover. I sent you strenght and more strenght to get through this extremly difficult time. I hear you All the best Love Kristina

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Hi Lizzie Thanks for your kind words. You will be in my thoughts,and I sent you loads of strenght to deal with your situation. How difficult that must be having to deal with this uncertaincy. I hope that you will get plenty of encouragement and help from this forum on your journey. Looking forward to your posts and updates Love Sunny

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Hi I can relate to your "shower experience" and its like heaven. It is really sad to read that pamela didnt even get a sponge bath after her OP. The simples things can be so joyful-water tastes like champain if you could't drink,standing/walking is the best thing on earth( really THE best) afer beeing in a wheelchair for 1 year. All this little things can improve your well beeing so much and its really sad that the health system is struggling and this small and so important things fall off the wagon. Rubes, pamela and silly :you are all very strong and inspiring and I will look up at all of you. How encouraging. I wish you well, wish you heaps of strenght and that your future path is protected and shelterd. Love sunny

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Coming to terms with my vulnerability It's such a odd feeling to go to a check up (nothing was wrong, just went because i thought i am supposed to go) and 1,2,3 dermatologist ogles a mole ( I've never seen it before, wasn’t aware it was there) says it needs to be looked at under microscope and one minute later i got a needle and a scalpel in my back! I always thought i know my body well, i would "know" if something is wrong, now this experience completely throws my train of thoughts off the tracks. I didn’t feel anything was wrong, didt expect that Doc will find anything wrong with me and he DID! Some of you may chuckle now: but I really thought when he said" microscope" he will just get a big one out and has a look at the mole, I didn’t realise that he was about to cut it out!! I feel a bit stupid. Now I am awaiting results. Hoping, praying all is good, or at least not too bad! My friends are all great but they are of no help to deal with this problem, With Cancer, yes i said it!!! CANCER! I got more attention if I would have broken my leg! It's really weird, it's like people try to avoid that subject, as if it is contagious! I don’t want pity I just want to talk about what's going on right now and this " think positive" and " playing things down" makes me feel I am the biggest whoos on the planet. Anyway I am glad having found this group and I am looking forward to supporting each other. It is so lovely having people out there listening to you. Take care Love Sunny

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Hi all I got a spot cut out for the first time on my back. Now I feel a bit like a whoos because its that cancer "everyone" seems to have and it seems to have good prognosis. So i try to say "shell be right" but somehow its not working. Still I am worried, getting final results monday. I was so surprised to get this thing cut out when i went on this queck up i didn't even ask questions, it was all too quick. I just went there because i havent been to a proper dermatologist and wanted peace in mind. I am happy having found this group and glad to be able to talk about things.

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