hi there my fiance had cancer... he unfourtunatly passed away last year as my husband. We got married a month before he died... as much as his family stressed and actually made things harder for us i am glad it wasnt 'all on me'. I found it so hard to deal with his emotions and my own.. it was really tricky when he got very sick and started the pallative care because there is so much involved... i think you need to have a chat to your fiance about what you feel, saying you respect her but what about your own feelilngs? i know this is awful but if she passes away from this her family will blame you for not telling them... trust me! my husbands family blame me for everything act like im in the wrong when really they are just grieving and dont know who else to blame. Her family have a right to know because they love her... i hope you are doing the best you can right now and please message me if you need a chat. What your going through isnt easy at all. My husband died a different man and i felt so very alone... take care xoxo ... View more