it can only be tolerated by not commenting and moving away straight away plus no contact for a while. try to find someting positive and latch on. ... View more

to hear that the medical went positiv is my greatest gift of that day, it seams reward and one can move forward. ... View more

hi there, i am a male late forties. two kids and a wife that got bladder cancer 13 years ago. trying really hard to deal with all related issues. kids banks jobs parents and daily life stuffs. to write my feelings down seems to help me. ... View more

to remain positive i might look at life not so serious any more. i will try not to plan too much, and having more time for my wife and children. all of them seem to have the tendency at the moment to seek conversations all the time. i must take more time to listen and be genuine about listening plus positive feedback as well if needed. ... View more

any issues that my wife faces i will take an interest, but it is hard for me not to pass judgement.because i am a very autspoken person and i seem to have an opinion about most things. even if i am not asked i will normally speak without thinking most times. ... View more

i have never really stopped paying my partner out in 18 years of bliss and two kids came along. i believe laughter is good and i will continue to try to make her laugh as long as she has a sence of humour ... View more

to find ways to stay focussed and remain positive. staying on top of kids daily issues. telling ones partner that live is wonderful and living daily without big plans. reassuring kids that i will allways be there, as in the dad. also trying to remain strong, do not show emotion which are negative. keep on motorcycling. the only thing i am having trouble with, is the physical side of the relationship ... View more