dear Mary there is not much to add to sharon mail she is right and u r too you will have good days and bad days . days when your husband wont get up or eat or drink depends where that awful desease is anyway dont do like me i wasnot prepared like you and i tried to made my husband eat and drink but that was too late too painful .your hubby will tell you it will be ok aussie or french there r all the same trying to protect us as much as possible i told my husband i was really scared so he did go when i was not wit him and i will regret that for the rest of my life but every body is different just tell him over and over that you love him i hope you be ok i cya on line take care Clo ... View more

dear michele my love of my life was diagnosed on the 13 october he passed away on the 18 of november i cant get over it but i come on line time to time when the pain is too great meeting people like you who show so much bravery love and courage really amaze me i hope you can fight as long as possible take care Clo ... View more

dear monique i felt i was losing my husband twice but at the end we were able to tell the true feelings i couldnt wait to be alone in the car or my garden or at the computer talkin to sharon 55 or totocol to scream and cry when we finally admitted how scared we both were and how lonely we felt it was better but my husband passed away 4 days after our real talk so dont wait even if your hubby dont want to listen tell him you love him and deal with the illness 1 day at the time take care Clo ... View more

dear Sharon time doesnt seems to matter .it will be 3 months on wednesday for Christian.Like you with Colin i just want Christian back tell him i love him that im sorry we didnt have enough time a lot of things i just want my husband back.at one stage dear Sharon Colin will come into your dreams dont worry about that you will be sad when u wake up but also feel relieved when he will tell u he is ok .dont panic im not on drugs yet!!!!!! but now i feel a bit better when i go to bed take care dear Sharon Clo ... View more

you are a brave woman sharon cancer is so tough on every body so dont be too hard on yourself  when we r confronted to cancer we dont know what to do take care love Clo ... View more

8 weeks  ago my husband was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer.Cris passed away 20 days ago and im so unhappy and so lonely without him i cant stand the freedom i dont want i just want him back our 3rd daughter is 12 tomorrow she said to me she will give up all her presents for the rest of her life if she could see him and talk to him 1 more time we are so sad  its so hard ... View more

hi sharon i hope u r doin ok its so hard isnt it i think of you both love clo ... View more

thank you so much but it hurts so bad i cant think about anything else i want him back i go 6 7 times in the bedroom to tell him something or i put his pj in the dryer that way he is not cold he is in my life for 29 years how im goin to live without him ?but anyway thank you for this site i couldnt have survived without it bye clo ... View more