Cancer Sucks, Thank you for your reply to my letter. And thank you for pointing out the number of years spent away from parents' home. My son has of course spent more years with his own family than he has at our home as a child. After reading your letter, it has become very clear to me that he has his family in mind when he did what he did. I realise that now and I am very grateful that you pointed that out to me. I was feeling very guilty that he did not ask me to look after him. I thought that I had let him down in some way and that he did not want me there. I quite understand that now and I will give them as much time as necessary. Thanks again. Elvibee. ... View more