Hi I posted on here a while ago as my mum has soft cell lung cancer. The weight of the world was on me as I live here and she is in UK, hence my post. You feel so alone and I appreciated those small exchanges from others which just say, we understand, we really do, we each have our own stories. Agree with other Julie. Take each day as it will and does change daily. I found that just by writing on this discussion it helped me a lot, even when no one read them. To honestly say how I am feeling, how destroying it is, how angry I am, sad, lonely. If it is possible to be with your mum when she has a meeting with her consultant try and arrange it so you can go and talk direct to try and get answers, although be prepared that sometimes there is none and it really is a waiting game. Keep us updated on things and wish you and your family all the best x ... View more