That sounds really horrible Gin 😞   It does sound as though your Mum is in the best place possible though right now, as hard as it is to deal with. How is your Dad coping with it all? I know dementia can be tricky 😕   Glad you have your daughter to lean on, hug each other often!! ... View more

I feel for you. I just recently lost my husband who had MDS,he was only 45 and was his carer in the final stages. I won't lie it is hard and you need support. I thought I could do it all alone. Fortunately I got help from palliative care and silver chain along with a couple of family members. I'm not the type of person to admit that I can't do something. I found strength that I didn't realise I had, I can't really explain it but when looking after someone you love dearly you find it from somewhere. Some days you want to give in,  are so tired and emotionally unstable that you don't know what to. As hard as I found it ,you really need to let people help you, don't try and do to much alone. It is a stressful time be kind to yourself. ... View more