I know this is a somewhat old post, but I really like what sharon said about gaining some confidence back and I wanted to quickly share the experience that my friend had and how wigs helped her. She was distraught when she started to lose her hair, and to tack that on to what she was already dealing with is no easy task. Initially she didn't want to give wigs a shot, so I went ahead and ordered her some after I read up on wigs for cancer patients: http://www.godivassecretwigs.com/wigs-for-cancer-patients/. Luckily enough I already knew all her sizes and everything so i placed the order. She was hesitant when she recieved it at first, but after the reception she got wearing it out for the first few times, she was ecstatic! It really helps some women gain their confidence back, so thanks for sharing Sharon and I hope others are inspired by your example. ... View more

I can only echo the sentiments that Emily expressed up above and I hope that some kind words and positive energy helps lift your spirit a bit. I know it seems bleak right now and I can't even begin to imagine the toll that this is all taking on you. However, this community is here to help, I recently joined and from looking around I have seen how supportive everyone is. I hope that you are able to get the same support that will help ease the nature of your situation ... View more

Glad to hear that you will be able to take some time away! No matter how minimal it may be it all counts in the end. I hope anyone in a similar predicament will be able to do the same. I also hope that the social worker is able to help you with resources that will be beneficial in your situation. I have not been through the same predicament, but I know a few people that have, and its important to always stay tough and strong, no matter how bleak things may be. Keep in mind that we're all here for you in some way or form, chin up  ... View more

I'm sorry to hear about your moms diagnosis and I wish you both well. I will say that holding it all in might seem like the noble thing to do, but the best thing you can do is be open and honest with your mum, let her know it hurts but you will be strong for her. If anything, this will help bolster her courage and do away with the fear that uncertainty brings. It's okay to feel sad, its normal and talking about it will help you both get through this together. Wishing you nothing but the best! ... View more

Just wanted to say thank you for being bold enough share your experience with us. I know it takes a lot of courage to air out parts of your life like that, and I am greateful that you did. Like several people haev already pointed out, it is an issue that many people might tackle, but one that does not get nearly as much attention as it deserves. I can't begin to imagine the complexities of navigating this, but I wish you nothing but the best and I hope you continue to play a role in each others lives in some way or form.  ... View more

I would like to start by saying that I wish nothing but the best to you and your mum. I have been in a similar predicament before, so I know how frustrating it can be to deal with people who wholeheartedly believe that they have your best interests at heart. Many of them do not see the stress that they are placing on people and their families, its almost a type of selfless selfishness. I do think that you should step in and politely tell your mums friend that undermining her decisions to listen to her medical team is not beneficial in the long run, even though she might mean well. Make it clear that you want nothing but a completely positive outlook around your mum and I think this should help the situation a bit.  ... View more