Hi Kris1,   Sorry to hear about your husband. It is a very tough journey for love ones of a cancer patient. I always say life is unfair and also keep asking why this happen to my husband. But my friend told me, life is fair just for some it is more fair than others and things always happen for a reason just sometimes we cannot understand the reason.    2 years on and unfortunately my husband lost the battle and passed on 12th August 2019. He was only 42 years old. It was never easy dealing with this when he was fighthing for his life but it is harder now without him around. I lost my soul mate, my best freind and the love of my life.    Now it's still raw but i wake up everyday telling myself i made a promise to him and i will try  to be happy after he passed. I am greatful he gave me these last 2 years to be with him and take care of him. He always try to make me smile whenever he gets the strength and he always tell me he loves me every morning and every night. I am grateful.   Please take care of yourself and all the best to you both ... View more

Doctor had tried 4 different types of chemo over the past year and a half. Killed most of his cancer apart from his neck, under his armpit and in his head. Consider all chemo failed. Hence we tried radiation with immune therapy. Radiation on the neck and under his armpit. It worked for a few months but the neck came back. Had another round of radiation this january at the neck but it came back again now. Seen the radiation doctor in late may and he said if we do another round of radiation at the neck it will be his last and his risk of damaging the throat, neck muscle and nerve to his neck and right arm will be 20%. May lose his ability to turn his neck and use his right arm. We heard this we decided to put on hold and let his cancer specialists find another trial drug to test on him. We are now waiting on news.   As to why only 3 rounds is max that is what doctor said. We asked and his explanation was the tissue and nerve in that area neck is thin compared to other parts of body. Hence max is 3 rounds.  ... View more

Had radiation twice and it still coming back. We are at the end of radiation. If we do another round of radiation it will his last. But will have higher risk of damaging the nerve and muscle on the neck and right arm. Going to ask cancer doctor next week what other options do we have. Not going to lose without a fight.  ... View more

Thank you for your support. My husband is still fighting this cancer. It has been tough. Been on so many chemo, radiation and trial drugs and it keeps coming back. Can't shake it. He is very emotional every day. I am too. But we still staying positive and fighting this together.  ... View more

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thank you selinam. Yes we have Silverchain coming to visit my husband and the doctor came too. they are very nice people as they call daily to check on my husband.   his condition got worse and we had to take him to emergency and end up staying in the hositpal for a week. he is home now resting and silverchain calls to check on him.   nice to know there is people out there that cares.  ... View more

He is getting more upset and worried he is dying. Even though i say to him dont be, Be happy and spend happy days with me. Deep down i am hurting too. And i cry everyday without him seeing as i need to be strong for him. Today is another chemo to prolong his life and another doctor review. I dont know what to say to the doctor anymore. His vibe is saying he has given up too. How to be positive when doctor already given up before you reach the end. Very loss. ... View more

Thank you kate. It is upsetting that they will try to scam families like this.  ... View more

Why is there people out there wanting to scam family members like us? Is so cruel. Had received an email from a user on this forum telling I am selecting to care for them and money comes good. Why??!!! They should be banned from here ... View more