April 2020
I struggle with the absolute loneliness and being isolated. The one thing I would like to change is to have him back.
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April 2020
Hi, Thank you for your response. The 2 big things I struggle with are not having someone to share your day with and having children interstate.
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March 2020
Hi deb58, I am okay during the day, and I do have activities to do during the day. I just need to change my late afternoon early evening routine when I am tired, and i have had enough of the day. i will at some time in the future move to a local town so I can participate in evening Activities. It is about managing until then. thank you for your message. deb
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March 2020
1 Kudo
Thank you Rick for your message, my husband died 3 weeks ago, we were together for 40 years. We live 60 kms from the nearest town, our area is somewhat isolated, there are things I would like to get involved in, but I hate the travelling especially at night because of the kangaroos on the roads. I do talk to my children regularly.
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March 2020
How do you describe the absolute loneliness I feel. People say you should learn to like your own company, I do during the day but evening are so long. There is no one around, my children live a long way away and I live in a rural area. I think others think I should be able to cope, but I hate it and I don’t want to be here by myself. I drink to numb the pain and I hate myself for being so weak. Sometimes I feel I just can’t be bothered with it anymore.
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May 2019
1 Kudo
Thanks for your reply, I think I will see if I can talk to someone. The thing is I get I at off my chest, but nothing changes.
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May 2019
1 Kudo
Hi all, I don’t know how to deal with this resentment I feel towards my partner. I feel like all I am here for is to care for him. And it is happiness that matters, I feel very miserable and selfish.
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January 2019
Thank you Emily, I will look for the Facebook page. I do have to get away for a bit, I just wish it was all different .
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January 2019
2 Kudos
I am not sure I can do it anymore. I wish there was an easy way to finish it all. He just doesn’t get it . I drink too much to get me through it. Do I just accept that I have to everything until it’s all over. I am selfish and I wish it was me so he could see howfxxxing hard it is. I am lonely and I am sick of it all.
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