Hi my husband was told he had kidney cancer in December he has now had surgery and is in recovery doing well but has up and down days with pain and discomfort and he takes out on me due to frustration as he is a very active person, just got to wait for post op appointment to see where we go from there, it’s been a struggle for us as my husband’s dad passed away while he was in hospital so I had to tell him the sad news I am struggling to come to terms with it as my father in law was like a dad to me also I am finding it hard that so called friends say I should not have to long time off work as it will not do me any good, any advice on how I can get through this.
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