Hi Chickhens, I'm so sorry both of you are in this situation. The only advice I have for you is take one day (or even one hour) at a time. You will cope, and you will do what you need to. I'm so glad you found this forum, it's a great place to get support and the Cancer Council itself is a wealth of knowledge and practical help. If you would like something more specific (and are on Facebook) there is also a facebook group called 'Caring for Husbands with Cancer' which is specifically targetted to women in our situation. (My husband was diagnosed with lymphoma in 2011 and has been in remission after 6 months of chemotherapy). It it really big now (nearly 12000 members from all over the world!) so it's very active and very encouraging and suportive. Know that you are not alone. Love and hugs, Emily
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