My husband has pancreatic stage 3 cancer. We have had Whipple and are doing chemo very harsh. Hopefully we will withstand this and the mighty hand of the only one who can make the difference will intervene. In the meantime I am waiting, trying to make dent in the emotional pattern of grief both of us have bumped head into... I will be praying for you both... I do believe in miracles...even when they are delayed.... ... View more

Thank you for the rawness of reality it blessed me to know I am not alone and I am grateful.  Expressive Writing is so explosive it captivates the heart and encourages us and others to walk onward. 🌹 ... View more

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Kj thank you for replying. I just sat through a rough discussion. It seems I can’t do anything right. He tells those in my family all he should tell me. I get slammed and ostracized for being real and even scared. This is not easy on him yet not on me.  My heart is to help. My need is for him to live. You encouraged me that you are doing well wow 2010. Cancer is a beastly experience and a journey that no one can know how you will feel or react and even possibly regret.  ... View more

I wanted to encourage you. My husband has pancreatic cancer we had the whipple surgery and soon begin chemo. We also dealt with a huge financial blow. He has suffered guilt and shame and even hopelessness. I try to help him but at times my help seems to irritate him.    I finally began journaling my fears frustrations even his responses. I found that doing this allowed for my frustration to be heard but not so vocal. I also will be praying for you and your husband cancer hits the entire family and we all deal with it’s stench differently.    You are not alone. ❤️ ... View more