Hi CDee, I'm sorry to hear about your Dad and what he's going through (and what you're going through). My father had bowel cancer.  By the time it was discovered the cancer had already metasised to his liver, kidneys and I think his stomach, but he still survived for many years. It was a long time ago now and I guess the small details also fade with time (and probably for self preservation). But even if I could remember, I'm sure that my Fathers symptoms could be very different to your fathers depending on so many factors, for example, where it has metasised to exactly.   If it is important to you for your father to see you married and it's not practical to reschedule, perhaps you could hold an earlier smaller cermoney, sooner rather than later, and take photos. You might then choose to take those photos with you to the later cermony. Just some thoughts.   Good luck, s -s ... View more