Hi Biancalj1, My father had bowel cancer. Towards the end, he said some pretty nasty things to us. Things better left unrepeated. When he passed away I was away at the time, but I swear I felt him pass through my soul and say good bye. An hour later my Mum called to tell me.   Afterwards when I reflected upon some of the things he had said, I wondered if he knew the end was near and was pushing people away, in the hopes of trying to hurt people less when he passed away. -s   ... View more