Hi Marg4, I'm very sorry to hear about your Dad. This is a difficult diagnosis for your father as for those around him. The anger is relatively common issue (judging from discussions on here) for families of loved ones with cancer.   https://www.cancercouncil.com.au/cancer-information/when-you-are-first-diagnosed/emotions-and-cancer/dealing-with-the-diagnosis/#anger   I have first hand experience as both a person who has had a cancer and as a carer of a family member with cancer, so I have some insight into the difficult situation you are in. I think it would be a good idea for your father to speak to a therapist, but I know this can be easier said than done.   Maybe have a read through here of the experience of other members of the community who have had to deal with similar issues. https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/HOW-TO-DEAL-WITH-A-LOVE-ONE-S-ANGER/td-p/21922   -sch ... View more