Hi Aa1,   We all have broad shoulders & I  dare say you've not offended anyone here🙂. You & your family have certainly been thru the wringer.  It sounds like mine, with a lot of my immediate family members & previous generations having cancer. A doctor's foremost duty is to save lives, so no doubt they would have patted themselves on the back without a single thought of what was in store for those they saved.   Given your familial history of breast cancer, it was very wise to go the bilateral way & I hope things improve for you.   I totally agree with your last comments on humans - as a race, they destroy everything they touch.   Budgie  ... View more